While Brody focuses on his new goals since his lip and palate repairs, he attends the cleft clinic at Shriners Children’s Boston, where patients receive a comprehensive care plan to meet their clinical and developmental needs. Children can meet with speech pathologists, orthodontists, dietitians and plastic surgeons in a single visit. “We were blown away by how much time speech, nutrition, occupational therapy and Sandy spent with us,” said Lisa.
Doug and Lisa have made connections with other craniofacial families at Shriners Children’s Boston, like Sarah and Gill, whose son, Beau, was treated for a cleft lip and palate. Brody is Doug and Lisa’s first child and it was a frightening time for the new parents. “We didn’t know anyone with a child born with a cleft when we received the diagnosis; it was very lonely and scary until we met Beau’s parents,” Lisa explained. “From our first meeting, they’ve been a wealth of information and such great advocates. It helped us feel better-equipped to support Brody through each surgery.”
Both Lisa and Doug recommend finding connections with families who have been through similar situations, which they found helpful. “After a cleft diagnosis, the cleft seems all-consuming, but keep in mind life won't always be about the cleft,” Lisa explained. “You will be so proud of your strong little warrior.”
Doug and Lisa are also reminding caregivers to take a moment to pause and breathe. “Know everything will be okay,” said Doug. “Once your child is here, embrace the fact that things are going to be a bit different but the more you embrace it, do what needs to be done, and advocate for your child, the quicker you'll navigate the storm.”
When Brody was born, Lisa and Doug texted a photo of their son to Sarah and Gill. The couple replied quickly, sending over a video of Beau. “Beau responded with so much excitement and pride, ‘He has my boo boo.’ It was just what we needed.”
Brody is a typical active toddler, whose parents would often run out of ideas to keep him busy while at Shriners Children’s Boston. “When his nurse came in with a playmat and a wagon full of toys, it was so much fun for Brody and so helpful to us exhausted parents,” said Lisa. In addition to playing with bubbles and balls, Brody loves being silly and making people laugh, reading books, and listening and dancing to music.
Lisa and Doug said they will always cherish Brody’s first smile after his cleft repairs, which was made possible by Brody’s doctor, William G. Austen, M.D., a plastic surgeon at Shriners Children’s Boston. “We can't thank Dr. Austen enough for being as good as he is at cleft repairs,” Doug said. “Sandy Barrett has been so helpful and such a comfort for us as well as all the nurses, doctors, OR staff; really everyone there is such a gem, and we are so grateful for them.” Both parents recognize they still have a long road ahead but feel it’s “less intimidating knowing Shriners Children’s Boston will be caring for Brody along the way.”