Zachary and Mary Ann feel supported by their entire care team, from the doctors and nurses to the cafeteria staff in the Blossom Café. “I love the food,” Zachary said. “Every time we come up the first thing we do is get lunch.” Mary Ann shared that when they returned to the hospital for a checkup after Zachary’s bone graft, he was very hungry.
Zachary had dietary restrictions because of the surgery. “I asked the people in the cafeteria if there was anything they could blend for him. They did and I had one very happy little boy,” Mary Ann said.
Zachary remembers playing with all the toys in the play area after his bone graft surgery. “My mom still has the teddy bear I got from Shriners that day,” he said.
Mary Ann especially appreciates how responsive Zachary’s care team is when she has questions.
“All the doctors in Boston will always answer all my questions and always get back to me no matter what it is. Since we live in North Carolina, the care team in Boston is great about getting everything we need to doctors at home. Even though Zachary’s jaw surgery is a couple years away, we are already talking with his orthodontist in North Carolina to make sure everyone is in the loop,” she said.
While explaining why Shriners Children’s Boston is such a special place, Mary Ann had this to say: “We always think it is amazing how all the nurses can always remember him and several have been there since our first visit to Boston. You do not see that too often. This journey could not have been possible without knowing we had such great support from all the people on his care team in Boston.”
Mary Ann has some compelling advice for other families managing a craniofacial diagnosis. “Trust your parent instincts, always ask questions even if you think they are dumb, and know that your child is stronger than you think. I have always told Zachary since he was very little he is stronger than I am and his cleft is not a weakness, it is a strength.”
Now in high school, Zachary loves football and hopes to play at a Division 1 school as a defensive tackle. He loves the outdoors, in particular, camping, hunting and fishing. In reflecting upon his experiences, Zachary had some powerful words to share: “Even though you are born with these craniofacial differences, you can still do and be anything. Be proud of who you are. Don’t let others bring you down. Scars are a sign of being strong. Talk to your parents, friends or doctors.”