It wasn’t long, however, until that finger contracted an infection. It turned black and Judah lost all feeling in it.
Surgery was necessary. Dr. Goldfarb knew it. Judah knew it too. Mary says Dr. Goldfarb promised to save as much of Judah's prized finger as possible. He kept that commitment – Judah can ride his bike and use his hand brakes as well as ever!
This sort of trust, between a doctor and a pediatric patient, is essential.
“Even though the child is not a full adult and the processes of thinking are not the same, they have a point of view. Especially when these kids have birth differences, they have a point of view. We have to listen to what they want – and not just do what they need,” Goldfarb explained.
“We have always been proud and honored to be able to call Judah our son. This little blip with the last surgery on his finger proved you can't keep the Judah-man down for long,” said Mary.
Beyond his bike, Judah is back to being a master of the monkey bars and a card shark at the dinner table, proving the adaptability of children born with differences is awe-inspiring.
“It’s remarkable. The coolest thing ever! If you’re born with certain limitations but it’s all you know, you’re going to do great! Judah is a wonderful example of that. He has an incredibly supportive family,” said Dr. Goldfarb.
Judah, in His Own Words
What do you love most about yourself? I love that my hands are different.
What do you enjoy doing most? I like to play card games and board games. I also like to ride my bike.
What sort of things can you do with your hands that other people might be surprised to learn about? I can write my name in cursive. I got to learn before the other kids because I learned in first grade and they learned in second grade. I also can swing with my wrists and climb a rope ladder on the playground.
What do you hope other people can come to understand about people with hand differences? I want people to know it's okay to have different hands. I know my hands are special but they can do the same things as everyone else's hands. I don't want people to be scared of my hands.